Greetings and Goodbyes

You can become rich in America without knowing much English language or culture, like my dad did. But, remember, I translated everything for him for free!

So, unless, you have a free translator, you will have to learn enough English language and culture to make your dreams come true.

To help teens, immigrants, and minorities who need to improve their skills in these areas, I’ve decided to provide articles called Easy English. Study them, learn them, and practice them often. Because whatever amazing things you want to do with your life here in this great country, it helps to communicate it clearly to everyone who can help you get there from here.

GREETINGS

1. New Friends

Although there are many ways to say the same thing, I offer only one that you can use every time. This way, it’s easy to remember. So, every time you meet someone new, just make eye contact and say with a nice, bright smile:

“Hi. My name is [your full name].”

Then, wait for them to tell you their name.

Then, say:

“Glad to meet you, [Mr. or Ms. their last name].”

Then shake hands.

If they ask you to call them by their first name, then do that from now on.

Then say something interesting about yourself that’s related to what’s going on at the time. Then ask a question or two about your new friend that’s not too personal. For example, you can exchange information about what each of you do for a living. Or, you can explain how each of you knows the event’s host.

2. Old Friends

Every time you see someone you met before, make eye contact and say:

“Hi, [name]. Good to see you again.”

Then shake hands, hug, or kiss lightly on the cheek. Whatever is comfortable for you.

“How have you been?”

Then share a few interesting stories about your life since you last saw your friend. Ask about his or her family, career, or hobbies if he or she mentioned those topics before.

GOODBYES

If you’re at an event with a lot of people, don’t spend more than 15 minutes with one person. They want to meet other people, too, and so should you! So, here is a polite way to break off the conversation.

As soon as you’re finished telling your last story, or when your friend has finished his or her last story, smile nicely and say:

“It’s been great talking to you. I hope to see you again.”

Then, walk away. It’s that simple.

When you’re ready to leave, try to say goodbye to everyone you met and spoke with during the event. Tap them on the shoulder lightly if they are in the middle of a conversation and say:

“I’m leaving but I just wanted to say goodbye and it was great to see you.”

Then shake hands, hug, or a light kiss again. Whatever is comfortable for you. Hope this little lesson was helpful! Be awesome. Be your own hero.

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